Maybe the biyoch was just using you?
For real brotha, I hate that she did what she did to you, but there are other habehsa sistahs out there. Why are you trying to analyze this? She is with him now...pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on. Life is too short to pine away over one chica.
BTW...don't sleep on the other African women out there. We are all beautiful. (Ya'll know I had to throw that in there.
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I am sorry about what happened! You need to talk to here to find out why she wants to go with the ethiopian guy. I think she is probabley afried of not making her parents happy about marring outsider. Some ethiopian parents dont want to see their kids with non ethiopians. Sometimes even with people from different tribe.
If she want u guys to stay as a lover, i think that she must love u. I dont think she is trying to hurt u....may be but the chances are very lOOOOW
she only looks out for numero uno and that herself
she dont care bout her fam or her new boyfriend and deffinetely not about u she left u for no actual reason and by sayin she wants to remain lovers i have to say i agree with ganja u dont want that and she s actin like a b..... indeed
so if u wanna get over this u ve got to manup and do what s best for u
and that means lettin her go
makin sure she understands she has no more power over you u and make sure u dont contact her or let her know u re not interested in being friends and wish her the best in her future life
cuz u dont want that some1 u ve been with 5 yrs and then they leavin u like that u dont want her back in your life thats just cold let alone that she wanted to use u as her toy and at the same time she s cheating on her husband SO WHATS LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT lol
when u re thinkin bout your past love u prevent real love to enter in your heart
so good luck with this battle u facin and believe me u ve gotta b a man about this and just let her go
she allready made that choice by being with him now u choose yourself and 4get about her just be glad u dont have any kids and that its been 5 yrs and not more