Ok…. I get the idea that pps in this site seem 2 respond well when it comes 2 sex n relationships.

Well its ok since probably its one of tha most important thing in our lives. Anyway back 2 ma topic. It’s a hypothetical question so please answer honestly. 

Lets say u had a pure sexual relationship with someone for sometime. Maybe months…but the girl/guy gets in to a relationship…. Would you stop ur sexual relationship with her/him or would u continuo as long as the other person doesn’t stop???

This is jus a little joke every1. If u havent heard it b4 

This is jus 4 thought. Thats if u guys havent read it b4

Peace 2 every1!

When we say we love this country, what do we mean we actually love? Is it the people, the land, the name, the history, the culture, or the religion? And how many of us know our responsibility toward the country we say we love. Or is it just for show?

I am from Ethiopia. For the world, Ethiopia is just another country (a poor one 2). But for me, the name itself means something. As a kid growing up in ET, I always assumed that the world was so big but ET was the greatest of all. I’m sorry to say this but I don’t think I feel the same way anymore. How I feel right now is that ET could have been one if it wasn’t for her own people. I’m not talking about the leaders we had but us, people like you and me. The people who always opted to complain & whinge before even something happens instead of try to make something happen.

I’m going to ask a simple question. How many of us knew what we wanted to be after we finish grade 12? But how many of us would complain about a political situation in our homeland before we even know how it is going to affect us? Or is it just a habbit? Don’t get me wrong here as im not talking about the current situation. I’m talking about whats been happening for hundreds of years and possibly to continue for god knows how long. The only time Hbaesha people in the Diaspora get together is when there is a political situation. But why? What’s up with the youth?

Now lets go back to the LOVE. What do we do to the people that we love? How about to the country that we love? How many people are on Habeshahookup talking about how much they love ET or ERI. Is it just that its so easy for us to talk hiding behind our computer desk in our luxury homes about 5 minutes away from McDonalds store? By the way this would apply to any country excluding the western countries. Sometimes our patriotism makes us forget that this problem is actually a global issue not only ours.

"Apart from the Kingdom of the Lord there is not on this earth any nation that is superior to any other." Haile Selassie I –Address to the League of Nations, 1936

In my opinion, what makes a great nation is having a strong identity with respect for others, strong culture, religion, stability and peace, at least be able to have three meals per day. And a citizen of the nation knowing what makes the country a country is its population not its leaders. A leader comes from that nation. A country doesn’t need to have half of its population to be doctors or professors to be a good country. For example if you see Botswana, it has been stable for a long time.  They are the worlds largest producers of diamond. That came after stability.

At the moment I’m a citizen of the country I live in. Yes I love ET and I miss it very much. I always wondered what I loved or missed about that country. It was never the history or the look. Every country has its own look and history. And everyone is proud of being who they are. In my case, it was the feel of home. Of course I didn’t know that before I came here. Last time I went back there, I went back to the place I was born and I was able to recognise the things I didn’t when I was there. It looked so green but dark. It looked like there is no life there. But everyday I spent there, I had the best time. The smell of fresh air, fresh cooked food, love of the people, sense of community makes you forget that. But I don’t want to be showing my patriotic view of ET as I feel like I have done nothing as any citizen should.

Where I live now. I respect the law, I pay my taxes because the moment I arrived here that’s what I saw and taught. I don’t really care about the leaders because I get what I want. Money. Politically I’m not a big fun of a national politics but international.

I think I’ve bored enough people for now but ill come back with more next time.

Peace to all!